Tuesday 22 July 2014

Because Sometimes Life Takes A Detour

Long time no speak eh? Don't worry i'll get the hang of this blogging crap one day...maybe. Anyhow my sudden inspiration to write another post stems from my chain of unfortunate events because to be perfectly honest this week has been crap! My trip to Wales to see my tribe was canceled due to a lovely infection in my toe, my "long term" partner and me broke up and just to top it off I got on the scales the other day and erm cried...Brilliant.


So as you can imagine I've not been in the best of moods as of late, in total honesty I've been in the worst mood, many pints of ice cream have been consumed and far to many hours have been spent in bed bawling my eyes out. But as the saying goes every cloud has a silver lining and this week has been so valuable in the sense of showing me what I still have left, in ways I feel blessed to have people in my life that are so compassionate and willing to take time to help me get my feet back on the ground. Within this I've received some fabulous advice and pick me ups which I want to share on here for me to refer to when I feel like my world is falling apart because lets be honest, I get into that mindset far to often!


"Don't worry about it too much, life does go on, even without our loved ones - Relationships come and go all the time at this point in our lives, it sucks but if you think about it, they weren't the one for you if things do go wrong and one day, you'll meet a person who makes you feel like you're living a lifelong dream."

"You're gonna pull through this even stronger and resilient than before. You're a kind, intelligent and beautiful person and you deserve to be happy. Whether that's with or without someone by your side, you're never alone because you have so many friends and a supportive family by your side."

"The only person you can rely on for your own happiness is you"

So there we have it future Alexi, life goes on, you've been through a lot of crap and whatever you're going through is just another thing to add to the list of things you've overcome in your life.

Now I'm off to go and write another post on the wonderful events that occurred before this week of dismay occored to cheer myself and this blog right up!

Love & TubTubs
Alexi 


"I had these memories all around me, so I wouldn't feel alone
Some may be from showing up, others are from growing up

Sometimes I was so messed up and didn't have a clue"
- Rose Tattoo